I am a wreck. He went to a convention where OW will also be. I was supposed to go, but of course, I couldn't stomach this. He told me last night that absolutely nothing will be happening - but she tells me otherwise. H tells me she just likes to get a rise out of me and it baffles my mind why he would want to associate with anybody like that.

I am in tears just about every moment of the day..he comes home Sunday morning.

Sorry to hear you are so upset. I can imagine the stress and ick of it all. Is there something that you can do for yourself? Paint a closet, go to te movies w/ a friend? Go bike riding? Just about anything that is for you ought to help. I know it is hard, but you need to be strong and active for yourself. You will also be more vibrant, confident, and attractive that way. I've got to run but you all will be in my prayers this weekend.
SB

second,

Check back in please and let us know how you are doing.

So, what kind of honest conversation was there about his attendance at this particular conference? Sounds to me like it's not an event which is going to be healthy for your marriage.

Is this an old affair that's over or one that is ongoing? How you approach this depends a lot on that.

P