Our YD bf of 5 years was killed today. It's like loosing one of my own. They were making plans for the future.....

I don't know what to say to her, I am just numb.

Please pray for both families. He was a 20 yr old remarkable young man.

Le

ooooo Le
I am so sorry
many prayers to you and your family as well as his family



love to you
Hypatia

oh Le..

my heart and condolences go out to her and you and the families...



Loui

I'm so sorry, Le. Sometimes there's nothing you can say. All you can do is be with someone. That's enough.

Le I am so so sorry. My 17yo said you im'd yesterday while he was on my computer. I'll try to reach you later.

P

Thank you guys...

You know there is nothing on this earth worse than watching your baby hurt.

I keep telling myself (so I can tell her) things happen for a reason, and it's God's plan... but you know at this moment right now I can't think of one good reason for this to be happening.

Please keep my d in your prayers she has stuggled so much.

Le

Oh My...

Le, you all will be in my thoughts and prayers. That poor baby. Just hold her tight, be the loving mommy that you are. It won't fix anything, but it will help. Bless her heart, and Bless his family as well.

It is so hard to understand why these things happen. Sometimes, we just can't and never will.

I will email you. I've been meaning to get back to you, but so much has been going on around here.

Love and hugs to all of you.

My heart and prayers go out to both families.

Oh no. My condolences and wishes.

My condolences to both families. How horrible.

Thank you for all your prayers and thoughts. It's so very hard and uplifting as well to see these kids (I call em kids even tho they think they aren't) just rally around each other.

My D has a group of girls that haven't left her side since they got the news and the boys.... you know some of the boys have known each other from kindegarten they did EVERYTHING together.

They all stayed together last night, it was so touching how they just made it about Curt and were so selfless with helping each other deal with this. These are the friends I hope she can keep for her whole life, the ones you really can't survive without.

Today is going to be a hard his parents flew in last night and she wants to go out there and then there's the trip to the funeral home...

Love you guys more than you know. I just told someone my life is right where it should be. Now this????? I feel so guilty for questioning God's decision to do this but I thought about it all night last night and I just don't understand.

Le

Le Dearest
I am so very sorry
Baby
you are a very good person
I wish I had words for you my dear friend
I cannot even begin to image living a parent's worst nightmare
just know you and your loved ones are wrapped in my heart

life IS so precious
yet fleeting
hold the memory and Curt's light in you heart
help your daughter to do the same
as she works thru the grieving process
help her work thru and let go of the anger and bitterness that will likely creep up
oooo Le


share a hug with your daughter for me


love to you
Hyaptia

It's so hard to understand why these things happen especially when we're in the midst of it. I can't even begin to imagine what his parents must be going through.

Maybe, though, your life is right where it should be so you have the strength and the courage to be there for these young people? What an amazing role model you are -- letting them grieve, being there quietly supporting them, helping them process their grief and questions in a safe space.

If you think back to all of the painful and difficult things you have experienced .... maybe.... part of the 'why' of those things was to build strength and compassion and courage to deal with something like this. And maybe someday in the future these kids will need to hold the hands and hearts of someone they love who is grieving a terible loss ... and they will be better equipped to do so because of what they learned here today.

We can't avoid pain. Or death. We all know that. It's the balance of energies that move and shape the universe. Empty/full - light/ heavy - light dark - creation/destruction - male/female - life/death - pleasure/pain. How we respond to these events and experiences is what makes us who we are. And you .... my dear ..... are amazing.



P

{{{{{{{{{{Le}}}}}}}}}}

What a wonderful time to see the strength and beauty of these young people and their friendship. Their Fellowship with one another. It is a very good lesson for all of us. How we should all handle such tragedy ~ using the strength of a group. The group can do what no one individual can alone....

H thank you so much for those words. It's friends like you all that get me through and your strength.

Penny, I have thought alot about what you said about maybe my pain and experiences have prepared me for this.

I know this is where I am suppose to be and I know this happened b/c of Gods Plan. Just sometimes just wish God would listen to my plan you know.. but then I know that's not possible and shouldn't be... anyway selffish to think that.

His parents are the most remarkable people, they have taken Kallie in are letting her help with music, slid shows etc. I think they are comforting for each other, it's like she's the walking talking part of him right now.

Spidey, Thanks for the hug. It's simply unbelievable how those kids just take care of each other. They are almost like one body instead of 15 or 20, they move literally in unison. That is an unbelievable comfort.

Well tomorrow we got to the funeral home for the 1st time.... It's like I have this checklist and I just past each thing....

I'll be back, thanks so much for allowing me to do this here.

Keep all of us in your prayers.

Le & Both familys -

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Sometimes we don't know what to say. It's OK. Being there for one another is all we can do sometimes.

Yes - there are parts of God's plans we sure can't understand. I'm glad it sound like everyone is comforting one another.


SB

Le, I'm so sorry. You and your family will be in my prayers.

GS

What a terrible loss at such a young age. Your family will be in my prayers.

Le, Darlin', I have not been here much due to work pressures, and am just now seeing this horrible news.

I am so sorry and know that I am holding you and yours close in my heart. How sad for everyone.

Prayers for everyone.