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You may have noticed that a few more "SYMC's" are showing up on some screen names today. Smile

EJLH, BWA, and Sleepy join our other amazing Mods in the pursuit of safety, honor, and respect here at the Village. Over the next week or so I'll be redoing some of the forum pages and redistributing our Mod Squad around the boards.

Today, though, is party time. Be sure to congratulate our newest volunteer staff members. Village Party! It's our volunteers that make the village what it is.


P


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Posts: 6052 | Registered: Wed January 14 2004Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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Congrats you crazy, wonderful kids!! Village Party!


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The first step to greatness is the ability to listen.

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Congrats BWA and Sleepy! High-five

And thanks for volunteering your services!!!

I already congratulated EJLH in my own special way last night on the PP board after I noticed the new star in her name. stirring the pot Laughing


Where we find our greatest weaknesses ~ is where we can also find our greatest strengths.
 
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Congratulations EJLH, BWA, and Sleepy! Cheerleader

I'm looking forward to being kept in line by all of you... where are the whips and handcuffs graemlins?? Big Grin
 
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Waving Welcome! Thank you for your time and dedication!!!!
 
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CONGRATULATIONS BWA,EJLH AND SLEEPY Celebrate

High-five Village Party! High-five


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Take care,

~Jamie~


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Life ain't always beautiful, but it's a beautiful ride.....
 
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Welcome welcome welcome!!! Waving Dancing Cheerleader
 
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CONGRATULATIONS BWA,EJLH AND
SLEEPY


"If it's not fun, tell me, why are you still playing?"
 
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Thank You everyone. I've been hesitant to post this morning because once I do it will change all of my posts to include that big SYMC after my screen name. A bit scary. Eek

I just have to say it feels really good to be trusted with such a responsibility after making such a huge life mistake. Not sure anybody can relate but it feels very healing to me.

I promise to do the best job I possibly can in my new job and I look forward to posting a bio soon so that you can all know me a bit better.

Thanks again,
Sleepy


Sleepy Sleepy

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Life is Beautiful!
 
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OK, here's a good Sleepy story.

It was February, 2005 and I am only 5 or 6 weeks after discovery of my affair. My H is devastated, I was contemplating divorce, splitting from our children, life is in shambles. I was in the deepest, darkest pit of chaos and depression that I have ever been in my life. Sounds like a good story so far, eh? I'm not to the good part yet. Hanging

By some miracle, I begin reading at MB. I kept coming across posts by Sleepy (only he had another, less fun name then). And, a little diode light started to be seen ahead on my path. He had gone through a lot of what I was going through, and I totally related to what he was saying. So, then I started to make it a habit to read Sleepy posts over my coffee in the morning. Learning taking place - hope for the future that things could get better.

Well, then I got brave and introduced myself in an MB group and was lucky enough to converse and continue learning. Then my H joined and after a whole lot of work and luck, we are doing really great after only 11 months.

I can't think of a better moderator. I owe Sleepy my life.

Congrats to all mods!
GS


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Heaven bend to take my hand, And lead me through the fire
Be the long awaited answer, to a long and painful fight.
Truth be told I tried my best, but somewhere along the way, I got caught up in all there was to offer.
And the cost was so much more than I could bear. - Sarah McLachlan
 
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GS, that brought happy tears. Thank You. Smile

BTW, I'll never forget your first post to me there. It was on the "who are you thankful for?" thread. Bet ya thought I forgot!

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It's just like you to sign up here just to say that. Thanks my friend!

See, I told ya all I have real friends! Big Grin


Sleepy Sleepy

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Congrats, all y'all.

You don't know me...but I was where you are...in many ways and in many roles.

You should all be proud and honored.

Penny has trusted you with an important gate-keeper assignment. You have volunteered to giving your services freely and to help others. It will be challenging...it will be rewarding.

You ALL RAWK!

You make us all proud.

Hug to all!!!
 
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BWA, EJLH, and Sleepy,

Congratulations! group hug

Regina


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When life gets hairy, it's time to shave. ~RG
 
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congrats!!!!!!!!!! Village Party!


J.
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who I am, not a reaction to how I've been treated.



Don't want your hand this time
I'll save myself.
Maybe I'll wake up for once

Evanescence, Going Under.



 
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See, I told ya all I have real friends!


Ooh! Ooh! Me too! Me too! So so proud of you, Sleepy!!! Congrats to everyone who has the honor of this title!!! I'll ditto the others & say you make us very proud!!!!

EJLH & BWA, I don't know you as well since I'm not around very often, but I too welcome you as a moderator & hope to learn from you as well. Congratulations!!!


Love in Christ,
Y
 
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Way to go, Sleepy, BWA, and ELJH! a.k.a.the Mod Squad... you guys (and gals) are awesome!
 
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Hey guys! Good luck in your new task. Thank you for taking the time to make sure this place continues to be great and safe.

Le


~~~~It's easy to talk the talk but what counts is walkin the walk.~~~~
 
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Thank you guys...

hey I luv the big Homer guy.. How does she do that??

I agree w/Sleepy it was a big deal to post with that little * next to my name. Hoping to be worthy enough in my postings to help someone. (of course this morning my thread is sounding rather less mod like and more needy like..but hey we may be mod's but we're still human)

Thanks guys..hope I live up to your praise.

EJLH Smile




"Everything's changed in a matter of minutes, nothing was saved in time. All of my old world and everything in it is hard to find, but they never...never were mine"

"Before you knew me, an Angel came to me. I wrestled him down to the ground. He said he could cure me I said that don't worry me now."



 
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Thanks guys..hope I live up to your praise.
I got moderated on a PP thread first thing the next morning after EJLH got her *.....she did a great job!!

I'm sure all three of our new Mods will do a great job! Congrats again BWA, Sleepy, and EJLH! High-five


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